What’s your go-to response in a family group chat?

"lol nice"
Sends a meme
Leaves on ‘read’
Writes a novel-length reply
Reacts to every message but no reply

Someone takes the last spring roll at dinner. What do you do?

Graciously let them have it
Stare until they notice, ‘Ooooookay…’
Doesn’t matter, you finished eating already and left the room
Take it off their plate when they aren’t looking
Loudly declare you were ‘just about to grab that’

What’s your role at family gatherings?

The planner—making sure everything is good
The eater—first in line for food and drinks
The entertainer—dancing or heckling for fun
The supervisor—talk here and there, then do your own thing
The photographer—capturing candid moments

You’re at a family karaoke night. What’s your move?

Belt out a classic with full confidence 🎤
Sing along as backup, but on the couch
No, thank you.
Hype up everyone else but never sing
Take over the mic and turn it into a solo concert

A relative is telling a loooong story. How do you react?

Nod politely and listen attentively
Zone out but throw in a ‘wow, that’s crazy’ when needed
Try to speed up the story with ‘so then what happened?’
Slyly make eye contact with someone else, seeking help!
Actually enjoy the story and ask follow-up questions

What’s your board game strategy?

Play aggressively to win—no mercy!
Team up with someone for an advantage
Just here for the fun, don’t care about winning
Accidentally break the rules and cause chaos
Somehow always win, but claim it was luck

You’re cooking for the family potluck. What dish do you bring?

A perfectly executed family favorite recipe
Something experimental you think will taste good
A store-bought dish, but you put it in a nice container
You bring your own food/meal
You ‘help’ by offering emotional support in the kitchen

What’s your usual mood at family events?

Excited and social—love catching up with everyone/dogs
Content, but mostly here for obligation
A little overwhelmed—too many people!
Laughing non-stop because everyone is hilarious
Secretly wishing you were home in bed

What’s your approach to Nguyen family drama?

Stay neutral and avoid picking sides
Make someone else resolve it
Try to mediate and help figure a solution
Spill all the tea to someone after it’s over
Ignore it completely and go back to eating

You get a surprise visit from relatives. How do you react?

Rush to clean everything before they come in
Act natural, but lowkey wish you had a warning
Hide in your room until they leave
Welcome them with open arms—love unexpected visits!
Panic but recover quickly and act chill

If you were a family emoji, which would you be?

🎤 (The one always ready for karaoke or storytelling)
🤡 (The family clown, always making people laugh)
🕵️‍♂️ (The lowkey observer who notices everything)
🍲 (The one cooking, bringing food, or eating)
🤳 (The one who’s on their phone)
📸 (The documentarian, taking candid photos and videos of everyone)
🎮 (The gamer, roping people into a video game or board game)
💃 (The life of the party, dancing and getting everyone involved)
🎶 (The DJ, making sure the playlist is always on point)
🐢 (The chill one, going with the flow and avoiding the chaos)
🚗 (The designated driver, somehow always driving people around)

If you had to be trapped in a reality TV show, which one would it be?

A chaotic cooking competition where you have no idea what you're doing 🍳🔥
A survival show where you swear you’d totally win… but probably wouldn’t 🏕️😅
A wholesome home makeover show where you just chill and redecorate 🛋️✨
A mystery-solving competition where you’re convinced you’re the detective 🔍🕵️
A dating show, but only to mess with people and cause drama 💘👀

You’re walking out to the Deboer’s front yard. Which shoes do you wear?

Anything that looks like it fits
Somebody stole my shoes
Tip toe barefoot to my own shoes
Those Vietnam slippers/flip flops
Crocs

There's an event at the Deboer's at Saturday at 1PM. What is an appropriate time to arrive?

Early because I have to help clean/set up
A little bit before 1PM. (I want a good parking spot hehe)
At 1PM. That's the time they told me??
2PM. We all know the party don't start on time
I live here, but I am NOT helping

Now it's time to leave for the night from the Deboer's. What time are you leaving?

I live here??? tf???
I have to leave between 7-8PM
Whenever my carpool says
fk it, I'm sleeping over hehe 🤭
Whenever everyone else heads out